SOMETIMES we might be in a difficult situation regarding of any matter in our life. The question is what will or would you do at that moment of time? Some may say that we turn to Him and asked for his mercy. Then the question of what have you done to be deserving His help? Have you been doing and fulfilling the duty of a servant? You might say yeah and i do think that many people would too but then again another question pops out, do you really think what you've done is correct and fulfilling the real needs and not your needs?
This is life as we look at it. There is no way one would be able to run away from questioning others. A misery life as one leads would be doubled if another person puts a heavy loads of questions of what he or she had been doing with her or his life all this while. Without knowing the pain, terror, seduction, happiness, grudge, misery, challenge and all that he or she strive through her life on his or her own, we put a war in their life making them questioning the life they had been living in and their God. If one consider to put an end to his or her life, the person whom provoke it should be hang in hell.
Currently, this phenomenon had been depriving me and my family. With only one question asked, it puts up tons of weight on our shoulder to be carried around. With that only one question, people start to make stories and assumption which complicated things that already is. If according to the law, with or with out any intention of making such offense through words or action to someone hence complicating that person's lie, one could take action by making a law suit to that particular people ( physical, emotional and moral).
There are certain things that human could critics on but be totally make sure that it won't sacrifice your chances of getting into heaven as Lucifer would love to drag you to Hell with him. Look at yourself first rather than looking at others flaws. As we speak, our flaws is open to public therefore make sure that it won't hit you back in the face. Criticism is something that should be bringing someone up and not dragging them down to the drain. Should you say or give advice, just keep it between you and that person (this is how the way of Islam- and I do think that other religion also having the same idea).
Some says that you should be careful in whatever you are doing as it would somehow bounce back to you either negatively or positively. What i would say is that know all the possibilities and risks that you might be facing with and knows how to deal with it. Then only will you decide on whether to go on with the decision or not. Everything is perfectly safe for anyone to discover when one knows of the risks, challenges, possibilities and how to deal with it. So people, an advice from me is that never talked or bragging about others affairs unless it offers that others an opportunity to develop.
* R&H *
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