Cinta manusia

" Love would brings you strength and happiness "

Pernah atau tidak kita terfikir bahawa kekuatan dan juga kebahagiaan yang dikatakan tadi adalah atas penderitaan atau penglibatan pihak lain? Setiap perkara yang dilakukan atau tindakan yang diambil dalam proses untuk mengecapi kebahagiaan dan juga kekuatan yang dimaksudkan melibatkan orang lain juga. Kadang kala ianya amat menyedihkan kerana demi mengejar cinta nan satu banyak pengorbanan yang dilakukan samada positif atau pun negatif. Jika pengorbanan tersebut adalah dengan meninggalkan tabiat buruk atau pun tingkah laku yang kurang bertepatan maka ianya adalah sesuatu yang bagus, akan tetapi bagaimana pula sekiranya tindakan yang diambil adalah dengan menyakiti serta mengerjakan perkara jahat? Inilah yang dinamakan masalah emosi di mana seseorang individu tidak dapat untuk mengawal kehendak berdasarkan lunas yang sepatutnya. Tindakan yang diambil merupakan jalan mudah atau jalan terdesak bagi mendapatan apa yang diinginkan.

Perkara yang sebegini tidak seharusnya menjadi ikutan dalam mengejar cinta dan cita. Ini adalah kerana kebijaksanaan seseorang manusia bagi mengatasi rintangan dan permasalahan yang timbul adalah sesuatu yang tidak boleh disangkal. Maka gunakanlah kebijaksaan yang diberikan oleh tuhan dalam menyelesaikan dilema yang dialami. Setiap apa yang berlaku pasti ada jalan penyelesaiannya kerana permasalahan yang timbul adalah sesuatu yang diciptakan dan bukanlah sesuatu yang wujud dengan sendirinya. Persoalan tepuk dada tanyalah selera tidak lagi praktikal kerana kemampuan manusia pada zaman kini sudah lagi tidak siuman. Tiap-tiap hari ada saja kematian yang dilaporkan oleh kerana rasa tidak puas hati dan juga gagal memiliki.

Baru-baru ini kita dipaparkan bagaimana seorang pemuda mati dibunuh hanya disebabkan cintanya ditolak mentah begitu saja. Jenayah tersebut dilakukan oleh seorang pemuda yang cintanya ditolak. Dari situ kita dapat lihat bahawa cinta terlarang kini juga sudah berani melakukan sesuatu yang extrem demi memenuhi keperluan diri. Satu lagi cerita adalah mengenai seorang jejaka yang dipaksa untuk minum racun oleh keluarga teman wanitanya dalam usaha mereka menyuruh jejaka terbabit meninggalkan anak perempuan mereka. Ini semua adalah sesuatu perkara yang kian menular dikalangan masyarakat kita pada hari ini. Dalam usaha negara menuju Malaysia Maju 2020, masih lagi terdapat manusia yang terkebelakang di dalam pemikiran dan juga percaturan kehidupan mereka. 

Permulaan kehidupan bukanlah sesuatu yang mudah diambil kira, oleh yang demikian, nasihat jujur saya adalah kepada ibu bapa yang inginkan anak, peliharalah mereka sebaik mungkin. Penuhi keperluan rohani dan jasmani mereka. Pemantauan kepada kehidupan sosial mereka bukanlah beerti menyekat setiap aktiviti yang boleh mengembangkan bakat atau pun potensi yang mereka miliki. Kepada ibu bapa yang kurang memberi perhatian kepada anak-anak pula, anda adalah seorang yang hipokrit dan juga tamak. Jujur dikatakan bahawa andai kata tidak pandai nak menjaga anak maka usahlah buang masa untuk melahirkan mereka ke dunia hanya untuk dicerca dan dipukul. Banyak pil perancang dan juga pencegah kehamilan, gunakanlah ia sebaik mungkin. Jangan digunakan alasan demi mencari sesuap nasi, kebajikan rohani dan jasmani anak-anak diabaikan. Ianya merupakan suatu alasan yang lapuk dan cabuk. Kehidupan keluarga saya menjadi timbang taranya. Dibesarkan oleh seorang penoreh yang terpaksa mencari sesuap nasi untuk suaminya yang buta dan juga anak-anak, bukanlah penghalang bagi ibu untuk memenuhi keperluan rohani dan jasmani kami adik-beradik. Masa tetap diluangkan bersama untuk berkongsi cerita dan juga berjenaka bersama. Hal anak-anak tidak pernah diabaikan dan gerak-geri anak-anak tidak pernah disekat namun begitu pemantauan tetap dilakukan agar tidak terpesong ke jalan yang tersasar. Bukan berniat untuk mengangkat sesiapa namun seharusnya setiap keluarga mempunyai perspektif yang positif dan juga rangkaian di dalam institusi keluarga yang di bina. Jika tidak seperti yang dikatakan tadilah, usahlah gatal-gatal untuk mempunyai zuriat kiranya tidak pandai untuk menguruskan mereka kelak banyak yang perlu dibereskan seperti mana topik yang dibincangkan, cinta manusia.

Kenny and the Dragon by Tony DiTerlizzi

This is a preview of a book that I've read.

Kenny is a little rabbit with a very big problem. His two best friends are heading for a battle of legendary proportion - with each other!

When the folks in the sleepy little village of Roundbrook catch wind that there's a dragon running loose in the countryside, panic ensues, and the stage is set for a fight to the death. In one corner there's Grahame, a well read and cultured dragon, with sophisticated tastes and no stomach for battle. In the other there's George, a retired knight and dragon slayer, who would be content to spend the rest of his days in the bookshop with a pipe and a good book.

As the legendary showdown between St. George and the dragon begins, can Kenny avert impending disaster without losing a friend in the fray?

I would suggest this book to anyone as it is filled with moral and a fun story to be enjoyed. So, enjoy reading.

Beginning

SOMETIMES we might be in a difficult situation regarding of any matter in our life. The question is what will or would you do at that moment of time? Some may say that we turn to Him and asked for his mercy. Then the question of what have you done to be deserving His help? Have you been doing and fulfilling the duty of a servant? You might say yeah and i do think that many people would too but then again another question pops out, do you really think what you've done is correct and fulfilling the real needs and not your needs?

This is life as we look at it. There is no way one would be able to run away from questioning others. A misery life as one leads would be doubled if another person puts a heavy loads of questions of what he or she had been doing with her or his life all this while. Without knowing the pain, terror, seduction, happiness, grudge, misery, challenge and all that he or she strive through her life on his or her own, we put a war in their life making them questioning the life they had been living in and their God. If one consider to put an end to his or her life, the person whom provoke it should be hang in hell.

Currently, this phenomenon had been depriving me and my family. With only one question asked, it puts up tons of weight on our shoulder to be carried around. With that only one question, people start to make stories and assumption which complicated things that already is. If according to the law, with or with out any intention of making such offense through words or action to someone hence complicating that person's lie, one could take action by making a law suit to that particular people ( physical, emotional and moral).

There are certain things that human could critics on but be totally make sure that it won't sacrifice your chances of getting into heaven as Lucifer would love to drag you to Hell with him. Look at yourself first rather than looking at others flaws. As we speak, our flaws is open to public therefore make sure that it won't hit you back in the face. Criticism is something that should be bringing someone up and not dragging them down to the drain. Should you say or give advice, just keep it between you and that person (this is how the way of Islam- and I do think that other religion also having the same idea). 

Some says that you should be careful in whatever you are doing as it would somehow bounce back to you either negatively or positively. What i would say is that know all the possibilities and risks that you might be facing with and knows how to deal with it. Then only will you decide on whether to go on with the decision or not. Everything is perfectly safe for anyone to discover when one knows of the risks, challenges, possibilities and how to deal with it. So people, an advice from me is that never talked or bragging about others affairs unless it offers that others an opportunity to develop.

                                                                                    

                                                                                                                                             * R&H *

Tyra or Naomi : Confusion

Have you ever feel so doubtful of something such as this picture that claimed by Kosmo (1st Nov 2010) in their stylo section belonged to Naomi Campbell. To me it looks like the picture belongs to our head supermodel diva Ms Tyra Banks. See the big different !!!

A Teacher

The teacher is an important person in the classroom. He/she has a great influence over the students, in terms of motivation, confidence, attitudes to learning, beliefs about learning, and social morals. It has been said that a good teacher can produce great results from even the worst programme, and that a bad teacher will make even the best programme fail. But what is a teacher? Here are some differing views on the role of the teacher:

        The teacher is a transmitter of knowledge.
        The teacher is a controller of learning.
        The teacher is a manager of class discipline.
        The teacher is a facilitator of learning.
        The teacher is a language resource.
        The teacher is a mentor of learning.
        The teacher is a counsellor of living and learning.

Di Mana kan Ku Cari Ganti

Hendak ku nangis
Tiada berair mata
Hendak ku senyum
Tiada siapa nak teman
Kalaulah nasib
Sudah tersurat
Begini hebat
Apa nak buat

Di mana kan ku cari ganti
Serupa dengan mu
Tak sanggup ku berpisah
Dan perhati patah, hidup gelisah

Alangkah pedih rasa hati
Selama kau pergi
Tinggalkan sendirian
Tiada berteman dalam kesepian

Dunia terang menjadi gelita
Cahaya indah tiada bergema
Keluhan hatiku membawa derita
Kini kau jua tak kunjung jelma

Di mana kan ku cari ganti
Mungkinkah di syurga
Untuk kawan berduka
Menangis bersama, selama-lamanya ..

I always left behind, before this I lost my father... now another father figure left me alone with no clear path or direction for me to follow. I wonder ; will I survived? Di mana kan ku cari ganti lagi insan seperti kamu berdua? God bless your soul.

What do you have in mind when looking at Golf gti??
Me? Well, it is a wishlist ...

Antara Dia dan Kita

Terkadang aku selalu memikirkan di mana letaknya aku nanti di dunia yang sana. Adakah aku akan menjadi salah seorang yang beruntung atau pun salah seorang yang bakal menerima akibat atas segala perbuatanku selama ini. Namun apa yang pasti tidak kira apa pun yang terjadi, aku telah mensedekahkan segala amalanku kepada kedua ibu bapaku.
Aku tak sanggup melihat kedua mereka berada di dalam seksaan di dunia sana. Biarlah aku seorang yang menanggung semuanya asalkan mereka bahagia dan terlepas dari seksaan kerana di dunia ini mereka telah banyak menderita menyara kehidupanku. Biarlah di dunia sana mereka akan mengecap bahagia dan merasa gembira.
Baru-baru ini abang yang aku sayangi telah pergi mengadap Ilahi. Pada mulanya aku tidak redha dengan apa yang berlaku tapi kini aku merelakan permergian beliau kerana beliau sudah lama terseksa di dunia ini dan tidak pernah menengecap bahagia. Biarlah dia merasa tenang di sana. Namun perjuanganku di sini belum lagi selesai. Masih ada lagi perhitungan yang harus aku tamatkan. Madah mungkin merupakan satu perkara yang mudah dilakukan namun mengotakannya mungkin mengambil sedikit waktu.
Perkara yang  sukar untuk aku terima adalah pemergian orang yang aku baru hendak merapatkan diri dan dengan cara yang dilakukan oleh mertua dia sekeluarga terhadap dirinya merupakan suatu perkara yang akan tersemat di hati dan sanubariku buat waktu yang lama. Permulaan semester aku sangat tidak memberansangkan manakala penutup semesterku merupakan yang paling dahsat dan paling mengejutkan.
Cara Dia menguji kita didatangkan dalam pelbagai cara. Mungkin ini adalah salah satu dari padanya. Dia menguji kita untuk menguatkan kita tapi antara kita yang berdengki dan berdendam apa pula natijahnya? Adakah ianya juga satu ujian yang ditetapkan olehnya? Bagaimana pula dengan yang memulakannya sampai ke akhirnya tiada berkesudahan, di mana rasional hidup mereka? Setiap permulaan pasti ada pengakhiran bukan? Mungkin inilah jalan yang sepatutnya ... jalan pengakhiran buat mereka!

Authentic materials

Authentic materials are in form of print, video and audio materials that the students encounter in their daily lives. This includes bills, job application form, voice mail messages, radio programs, movie clips, and menus. It is something that is not being created to exist but a real thing that could be found anywhere around us. It would be an excellent learning tools for students because they are authentic. 

Some examples of many types of print materials includes ; utility bills, traffic tickets, greeting cards, calendars, magazines, food labels, TV guides, newspapers, ATM screens, street signs, coupons, ATM receipts and order form. 

Meanwhile examples for authentic auditory are ; phone messages, radio broadcasts, podcasts, e-books, movies, videos/DVDs, television programs and clips.

Authentic materials help students connect to the outside world. They will be able to get to use the language which is appropriate with the situation that they will be encounter and maybe already been going through the process. Therefore, teachers should be teaching the students according to their needs and goal. It is to ensure that the students will be able to benefit from the lesson and the use of authentic material. 

Maintain a good lifestyle with easy steps

This is an easy way for all of us to maintain our health and also our body resistance ;

• Start the day right with Nestle fitness & fruit whole grain breakfast.
• Eat balanced meals and  drink at least 1.5 liters of water and servings of fruits and vegetables everyday. a serving of yogurt can  be a good snack.
• Get moving. Do at least 30 minutes, 3 rimes a week at the gym or walk, jog, swim, cycle or whatever activity that suits. What is important is that you get your body moving.

carve the guilt in me

Sometimes I rather be alone than be with the people whom I love. Not to say that I am selfish or ignorant but I feel that I am a burden at times. The stares and blinks really make me realize the thing i am ought to be harnessing in myself, guilt. I am such a lucky person to have such wonderful people around me, supporting me and making my life a heaven life. Through thick and thin. And not forgetting my darling love ... Some would not be so lucky like I am. Yet I should have some guilt in me that I've been unaware of all those all this while. Such an ungrateful servant.

Impossible by Shontelle

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did, I did

And you were strong and I was not
My illusion, my mistake
I was careless, I forgot
I did

And now when all is done
There is nothing to say
You have gone and so effortlessly
You have won
You can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible

Falling out of love is hard
Falling for betrayal is worst
Broken trust and broken hearts
I know, I know

Thinking all you need is there
Building faith on love and words
Empty promises will wear
I know, I know

And now when all is gone
There is nothing to say
And if you're done with embarrassing me
On your own you can go ahead tell them

[ From: http://www.metrolyrics.com/impossible-lyrics-shontelle.html ]


Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible!
Ooh impossible (yeah yeah)

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did..

Really wonder did the writer experience this or it is just me who is connected with the lines in the lyric.

Personality

What is Personality?

The "personality" is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique.

When we say that someone has a "good personality" we mean that they are likeable, interesting and pleasant to be with. 

Everyone wants to be attractive to others.  To that end, having a good personality is vital - probably even more so than good looks. In fact, approximately 85 percent of your success and happiness will be a result of how well you interact with others. Ultimately, it is your personality that determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.

While we can only enhance our looks to a certain extent, we have the ability to improve the personality as much as we want. We can develop or integrate any trait we deem fitting and agreeable.

Here are some ways we can accomplish this: 

1. Be a better listener.
Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis was considered one of the most charming women in the world because she cultivated the skill of being an exceptional listener. She was known for the way she would look a person in the eyes,  hang on their every word, and make them feel important. There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you intently making you feel like you're the only person in the world.
2. Read more and expand your interests.
The more you read and cultivate new interests, the more interesting you are to others. When you meet new people it gives you the opportunity to share what you know and to exchange your views with them. 
3. Be a good conversationalist.
This relates to how much you read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others. No one can read about or know everything, so it's refreshing to learn from others those things we don't have the time to about read ourselves.  If you happen to be shy, join a group like Toastmasters that encourages you to talk about what you know.
4. Have an Opinion.
There is nothing more tiresome than trying to talk to someone who has no opinion on anything. A conversation has nowhere to go if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an uncommon point of view or differing opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to be with socially (unless you're a know-it-all, of course).  A unique outlook expands everyone's perspective.
5. Meet New People.
Make the effort to meet new people especially those unlike you. It not only exposes you to different cultures and alternative ways of doing things, it broadens your horizons. 
6. Be yourself.
The next most tiresome thing after having no opinions is trying to be something you're not. Molding yourself in order to fit in, or be accepted, usually backfires. Since each of us is unique, expressing that uniqueness is what makes us interesting. Attempting to be a carbon copy of someone else not only falls flat, but reveals a lack of authenticity. 
7. Have a positive outlook and attitude.
Who wants to be around people who are negative, complain a lot, or have nothing good to say? In fact, most of us run when we see them coming. Instead, be the kind of upbeat person who lights up a room with your energy when you enter it. Do it by looking for the best in people and things. Smile warmly, spread good cheer, and enliven others with your presence. 
8. Be fun and see the humorous side of life.
Everyone enjoys the company of someone who makes them laugh, or smile, so look for the humorous, quirky side in a situation - there always is one. Comic relief is a much welcome and needed diversion at times. When you can add fun and lightheartedness to an otherwise dull, or gloomy setting, others will naturally be attracted to you, not to mention grateful.
9. Be supportive of others.
Being supportive is probably the most endearing quality you can integrate into your personality. Just as you yourself welcome it, be the support for others when they need it. We all love a cheerleader in our corner; someone who is encouraging, believes in us and helps pick us up when we're down.
10. Have Integrity and treat people with respect.
Being honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Nothing improves a person's personality more than integrity and respect - respect for others, as well as respect for yourself.

We humans have the power and ability to shape our personalities however we wish. When we develop ourselves to be all that we can be, we contribute to our own, as well as the happiness of others.


For more of this tips and ways for you to improve your life skills please visit:  http://www.essentiallifeskills.net/improveyourpersonality.html 

I got this feeling

The part that I missed the most is when my friends and I went for our meals. Why is that so? Well this is the time where you'll be hearing lots of story and rumors created by our bunch of psychopath. Things would get crazier when I am with my cohort friends. They are more vicious in learning about others' matter. It is not that I am saying that the thing is wrong but that is the only thing that i miss so damn much with my clubbers friend. We used to get into fight where this one guy felt threaten by our combustive conversation in one Mamak stall. It almost cost us a table and two chair but due to click of clubbers and from one group of identity, it ends with lepaking at the guys house. Actually everything has its own solution and also conclusion. It is a matter of how it is being handled and take care of. Every time that I am involved with any mouth fight or gossiping, I got this feeling of playing with someone's heart and life. Well, my dear friends taught me a lot of things that I think would be so damn useful for my living.